"Four Eyed Monsters" is a hip, uber-modern love story, and so is the real-life social experiment on which the film is based. When Arin Crumley, a shy videographer with relatively little dating experience, met disillusioned art-school grad Susan Buice, the two hesitantly begin dating with only one explicit rule: they would never speak in person, but only through passed notes, MySpace messages, sketches, animations, videos, music â and of course, sex.