Hey guy, relax!

Nobody here hates you and the web site is a better place with you here.
Here's something I figured out after feeling like I was the world's target;

"Nobody can hurt you unless you let them."

If someone says something about you that's not true, they are just wrong.

If someone says something 'hurtful' about you that's true, then you already know it and are either fixing it or have come to terms with it and accepted it.

If someone says something specifically to hurt you they are just being mean and everybody can sense it. (Being harshly corrected for having made an erroneous statement comes under this one).

The bottom line - Step back and look at it from the outside. It dulls sharp words giving them the cutting power of a butter knife.

No one won here - the contest exists only in someone else's head ! (Apologies to Blackrat!)